Nicholas Sparks has such a way with words. Cliche’? yes I know it is. But its the truth! In his book “The Wedding” it says, “Noah, i understand women…The point is, that there’s no man alive who can honsetly say those words and mean them.It just isn’t possible, so thers no use trying. But that doesn’t mean you can’t
love them anyway. And it doesn’t mean that you should ever stop doing your best to let them know how important they are to you”
Every man should live by this in their relationship. Actually…men and women both. After being with eachother for so long you forget what made you want to be with that person in the first place. Your relationship is only as interesting as you make it. If you do the same things everyday and it becomes a routine then your relationship becomes boring. Do the things you used to do when you first tried to catch their attention. Women, you know you would love your man to surprise you one day at work with flowers, unannounced. Or have a sweet letter left on your pillow beside you when you wake up in the morning after they’ve gone off to work. Breakfast in bed with flowers and a letter would be the ultimate surprise!
Men would like the same sweet gestures to. I’m sure that they would love a suprise meal in the morning. Or have a romantic dinner, set up with a couple candles on the table, ready when they get home from work. Remind them how much you appreciate that they do for you with their job, helping around the house, how good the yard looks because they just cut the grass, and remind them of how good they look just as they did the first day you saw them.
Relationships are never easy all the time. Everyone has their moody moments, their sad moments, their jealous moments, or just a bad day. But just be there for eachother and help eachother along the way. If you don’t have your sweetheart helping you get through things who will? (besides God of course.) Some may say they can do it on their own but who WANTS to do it on their own? So people, remind your other half of how much you love them and care about them.
Today i am~ loving my sweetheart~